I decided to make a list of the most helpful things that we've used so far. I've also decided you can never have enough baby things. Of course, we have more helpful things, but these are just a few that we love.
http://www.amazon.com/Summer-Infant-Sleeper-Portable-Bedding/dp/B005ASKQ42/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1341699595&sr=8-1&keywords=by+your+side+sleeper
If you have a baby that won't sleep in his crib, this is the thing for you! Jackson was definitely a snuggle baby and still is. He just wanted to be close to us all the time. We decided to get this, because it goes in your bed. I was terrified to actually sleep with him, so this seemed like the next best thing. He still felt like he was close to us and when he woke up I could just put my hand on him and he'd eventually go back to sleep. The sides are also mesh so I didn't have to worry about him suffocating. We couldn't use it for very long, because Jackson is growing so fast! I'm sure it'd last longer for normal sized babies.
http://www.amazon.com/Graco-Pack-Playard-Bassinet-Pasadena/dp/B004Y9AKZI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1341701682&sr=8-2&keywords=graco+pack+n+play
This accomplishes the same thing the co-sleeper does. Jackson just outgrew his sleeper so we started putting him in the pack n play. I can still put my hand on him when he wakes up and he has enough room to wiggle around.
http://www.amazon.com/Summer-Woombie-Swaddle-Newborn-Maldives/dp/B005MPCAJC/ref=sr_1_7?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341701904&sr=1-7&keywords=woombie
Jackson is a mover and a shaker. His arms and legs are constantly moving. He would wake himself up without a swaddle. He likes this swaddle better than any of the other ones. Brand doesn't matter, just design. The zip is also a lot more convenient than the velcro. He'll still sleep in the velcro (SwaddleMe) waddles, but we prefer these. They aren't as tight around his chest.
http://www.amazon.com/The-First-Years-GumDrop-Pacifier/dp/B004GY8A58/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341702138&sr=1-1&keywords=gumdrop
We got lucky, because these were the first pacifiers we tried. At first he didn't like them, but we kept trying and he eventually got to where he's likes them. Sometimes he still won't take it, but he's getting better. I've also tried the Nuk ones and he hated them. These are the only ones he likes.
http://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-T2517-Bouncer-Turtle-Days/dp/B002OOWAGW/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341702281&sr=1-1&keywords=turtle+bouncer
This toy bar came with his bouncy seat. He could care less about the seat, but he LOVES this toy bar. He just stares at the red turtle. This thing will keep him content for quite awhile.
http://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Rainforest-Melodies-Lights-Deluxe/dp/B000FFL58Q/ref=sr_1_2?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341702416&sr=1-2&keywords=activity+gym
We just got this, but he already likes it. It lights up at the top and also plays music. The only negative is that you have to keep playing with it for the music to play. It isn't continuous. He loves the elephant rattle. Definitely keeps him entertained for awhile and gives us a place to lay him for tummy time.
http://www.amazon.com/The-First-Years-Infant-Toddler/dp/B000067EH7/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341702548&sr=1-1&keywords=baby+bath+tub
This tub makes bath time so much easier. The sling is a lifesaver! I'm such a worrier and it makes me feel better when giving him a bath. It cradles the baby and you don't have to worry about him slipping into the water.
http://www.amazon.com/California-Baby-Sensitive-Shampoo-Bodywash/dp/B002VARN3O/ref=sr_1_3?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1341702671&sr=1-3&keywords=california+baby
Jackson has super sensitive skin so I thought I'd have a really hard time finding a soap that wouldn't irritate him. This works like a charm. We don't even have the super sensitive kind and he still doesn't get irritated.
http://www.target.com/p/gerber-newborn-10-pack-gauze-prefold-diaper-white/-/A-13574461#?lnk=sc_qi_detaillink
These are lifesavers when breastfeeding. He's a messy eater, haha. These soak up the milk and also serve as light-weight blankets! I definitely recommend these over the smaller, more popular ones.
More to come! Jackson needs me :)